How should i be dressing?

im not sure how i want/should dress anymore. im 19, graduated, trying to find what i want to do with myself, etc. trying to find some type of career to go toward, ive kinda always like some "goth" things and steam punk, i like cosplay and lolita, and kinda weird things, but it hit me a while ago that i need to dress more seriously, no more bondage pants and high school looking skinny jeans. i want to dress more adult i guess, but still have some originality to it, and not like everyone else stuff like that, thing is i dont really go anywhere or do anything yet, so its kinda something i wanna that i guess, build a wardrobe for when i do maybe go to college and/or get a real career/job i guess? lol sounds kinda retarded but yeah, so any sites or suggestions would be nice, and well, no mean comments :s lol thanks :)